{"id":853,"date":"2024-11-30T17:10:14","date_gmt":"2024-11-30T17:10:14","guid":{"rendered":"http:\/\/whiterainbow.in\/?p=853"},"modified":"2024-11-30T17:10:14","modified_gmt":"2024-11-30T17:10:14","slug":"growing-through-it-a-box-full-of-fresh-starts","status":"publish","type":"post","link":"https:\/\/whiterainbow.in\/index.php\/2024\/11\/30\/growing-through-it-a-box-full-of-fresh-starts\/","title":{"rendered":"Growing Through It! A box full of fresh starts!"},"content":{"rendered":"\n<p>Phew, it&#8217;s been <em>so<\/em> long since I\u2019ve updated my blog! Life\u2019s been chaotic, and moving to a new place where you barely know anyone is\u2026 weird. I was kinda scared of starting over, making new friends, proving myself to teachers, but at the same time, I\u2019d never been more excited. <em><mark style=\"background-color:#f9d9ec\" class=\"has-inline-color\">This was my chance to reinvent myself.<\/mark><\/em><\/p>\n\n\n\n<p>Back in 9th-10th grade, I was really introverted, weighed down by social anxiety, and frankly afraid of trying anything new. I tried too hard to fit in with the wrong set of people, made numerous mistakes, and failed <em>a lot.<\/em> I lost friends, gained friends, went through all the normal teenage drama; but you know what I didn\u2019t do? <strong><mark style=\"background-color:#ffcee2\" class=\"has-inline-color\"><em>Have fun.<\/em><\/mark><\/strong><\/p>\n\n\n\n<p>Fast forward to right now. Here in this school, no one knew me. That gave me a fresh start to become someone new, someone who was confident, adventurous, and unapologetically herself. And trust me, it isn\u2019t easy. I had to navigate working on myself while studying hard. But it\u2019s been worth it. Sure, I\u2019m still a mess at times; yes, I still freak out over random things. But I love how these past few months have unfolded. I\u2019ve made mistakes and bombed a few exams, but hey, <em>isn\u2019t that just life?&#8230;<\/em><\/p>\n\n\n\n<p>A few days ago our school took us on a trip to an amusement park, and that&#8217;s when I truly realised that I had <em>changed as a person<\/em>, I was no longer the quiet, cautious girl. That girl didn&#8217;t laugh aloud, skip\u00a0around, dance with friends, or live so freely. <em><mark style=\"background-color:#fadce9\" class=\"has-inline-color\">And now?<\/mark><\/em> I do all of that, and <em>I adore this new version of myself.<\/em><\/p>\n\n\n\n<p>When i sat on the bus with my best friend, on the way back home, I took a minute to realise how much having a few people who believe in you, who love who you are, can absolutely transform you in ways you never thought possible.<\/p>\n\n\n\n<p>So, to anyone reading this: <em><mark style=\"background-color:#fadbea\" class=\"has-inline-color\"><strong>learn to let go and go with the flow.<\/strong> <\/mark><\/em> It starts off by taking baby steps, be carefree, don&#8217;t be scared to venture outside of your comfort zone, embrace the turmoil, take chances, because at the end of the day, it&#8217;s about progress, not perfection, AND have more confidence in yourself; because if you don\u2019t look out for you, then who will?<\/p>\n\n\n\n<p><em><mark style=\"background-color:#fde6f3\" class=\"has-inline-color\">Remember: Every setback, uncomfortable situation, and novel encounter moulds us into the people we were destined to be.<\/mark><\/em><\/p>\n\n\n\n<figure class=\"wp-block-image size-large\"><img loading=\"lazy\" decoding=\"async\" width=\"1024\" height=\"576\" src=\"https:\/\/whiterainbow.in\/wp-content\/uploads\/2024\/11\/Untitled-design-4-1024x576.png\" alt=\"\" class=\"wp-image-858\" srcset=\"https:\/\/whiterainbow.in\/wp-content\/uploads\/2024\/11\/Untitled-design-4-1024x576.png 1024w, https:\/\/whiterainbow.in\/wp-content\/uploads\/2024\/11\/Untitled-design-4-300x169.png 300w, https:\/\/whiterainbow.in\/wp-content\/uploads\/2024\/11\/Untitled-design-4-768x432.png 768w, https:\/\/whiterainbow.in\/wp-content\/uploads\/2024\/11\/Untitled-design-4-535x301.png 535w, https:\/\/whiterainbow.in\/wp-content\/uploads\/2024\/11\/Untitled-design-4.png 1280w\" sizes=\"auto, (max-width: 1024px) 100vw, 1024px\" \/><\/figure>\n\n\n\n<p>Want to See Some of my paintings&nbsp;<a href=\"https:\/\/whiterainbow.in\/index.php\/category\/colors\/\">click on me<\/a>.<\/p>\n\n\n\n<p>Unleash your curiosity&nbsp;<a href=\"https:\/\/whiterainbow.in\/index.php\/category\/curiousme\/\">here<\/a>.<\/p>\n\n\n\n<p>To see more blogs by me&nbsp;<a href=\"https:\/\/whiterainbow.in\/index.php\/category\/creativepen\/\">click here<\/a><\/p>\n\n\n\n<p>To follow me on my Instagram<a href=\"https:\/\/www.instagram.com\/whiterainbow_pearl\/\">&nbsp;click here<\/a><\/p>\n","protected":false},"excerpt":{"rendered":"<p>Phew, it&#8217;s been so long since I\u2019ve updated my blog! Life\u2019s been chaotic, and moving to a new place where you barely know anyone is\u2026 weird. I was kinda scared of starting over, making new friends, proving myself to teachers, but at the same time, I\u2019d never been more excited. This was my chance to &hellip; <\/p>\n<p class=\"link-more\"><a href=\"https:\/\/whiterainbow.in\/index.php\/2024\/11\/30\/growing-through-it-a-box-full-of-fresh-starts\/\" class=\"more-link\">Read more<span class=\"screen-reader-text\"> &#8220;Growing Through It! 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